◎拔苗助长bámiáo-zhùzhǎng
[pull up the rice shoots with the intention of helping them to grow;try to help the shoots grow by pulling them upward] 即揠苗助长，嫌禾苗长得慢而用手向上提，以助其生长。比喻不顾事物发展的客观规律，强求速成，反而把事情搞坏
他还是个孩子呀，可别拔苗助长哟!
比喻为求速成而不按事物本有渐进的秩序，结果不但无益，反而有害。参见「揠苗助长」条。